Elisa Preston
Hustle vs. Heart

For two years, I did what I thought I was supposed to do. I posted “authentically” in various online spaces. I hosted a podcast. I wrote for other blogs. I did all of those things, and it was just … not me. Bits and pieces of it were. But the stuff that drained me was not balancing the stuff that invigorated me.

Hustle vs. Heart
Elisa Preston
Peace depends on me.

I am Democrat. You are Republican. Peace depends on me.
I am a woman, you are not; peace depends on me.
I am a Christian, you are not; peace depends on me.

Peace depends on me.
Elisa Preston
We owe our children everything

In a recent Blue Bloods episode, Danny reveals a family pact the adults all made the day their children were born: We made the choice to bring you into the world. You didn't make the choice, we did. So a bargain was struck that day that you owe us nothing and we owe you everything.

He's right. We owe our children everything. …

We owe our children everything
Elisa Preston
Don't let part of your story become your whole ...

Our Life Story is made up in fractions. However, since we forgot everything we learned in third grade math I think sometimes we get stuck and think that PART of our story is going to end up being our WHOLE story. But that's not the case. Basic math tells us that PARTS and WHOLES are very different, and that one piece does not define the whole pie.

Don't let part of your story become your whole story
Elisa Preston
More than barbecue and beer

My point is not that you agree or disagree with whatever War we haven't to be in. The point is that these soldiers/airmen/marines/seamen/coast guardsmen, without knowing you your family or what you stand for, at the drop of a hat will go to defend you.

More than barbecue and beer

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When HELPING becomes HINDERING

When HELPING becomes HINDERING

It would be really great--and it would make this counselor heart so very happy--if we could have a universal, required-for-adulthood training on boundaries.

It's Not Me, It's You... I mean...

It's Not Me, It's You... I mean...

You know who shouldn't have to learn how to listen? Grown-ups. We should be in control of ourselves enough to listen, respect, and engage with one another in an appropriate manner. But since we're not a perfect people, that is not always the case.